If you really want to know how to get back an ex you must learn to become sneaky. The truth is that maybe getting back together with you is simple not on your ex’s mind right now. But it is the only thing you can think off and you are consumed by this every day.

What you need to do to bring them to start thinking about getting back together is to infiltrate their world. And to do this successfully and to not alert them to what you are trying to do it is important that you are sneaky when interacting with them.

Now normally when someone is trying to get back an ex they are not ready to move on. They hang on to the hope that the relationship can be rescued. This creates a scenario where the one who wants to move on knows that the other person is reluctant to do just that. This makes them even more aware and they perceive that everything the other person does is an effort to get back together with them.

It is your job to change that perception.

Sneaky Mission One:

The first thing you should do is to let your ex think you are moving on. So go out and have some fun with your friends and hang out where your ex’s friends can spot you having a blast.

Now for this to work you should make it seem obvious to their friends that you are having fun and moving on. And whatever you do, do not advertise the fact that you are having fun and moving on to your ex. Let them hear it from their friends. The sneaky part here is that if you are moving on faster than your ex this might bother them. If this happens you infiltrated their mind by letting them start thinking about you again.

Sneaky Mission Two:

When you talk to your ex you must refrain from telling them all the things you are doing and the fun you are having. Instead make them aware that you are happy. And also tell them that they deserve to be happy as well. The sneaky part here is that you will make them feel more confident and good about themselves. And people are drawn to people who make them feel this way. What you also accomplished here is to have opened the door to future communications.

You need to be patient though. If you phone them to much they might get a sniff of what you are trying to do. Wait a few weeks and then call them up or send a text message asking them how things are going. The important thing to remember is that you must sound like an old friend trying to get back in touch and not like an ex who wants them back.

When your ex feels more confident about your motives they will start talking to you more and more. And when this happens just let them talk. They will value the fact that you are listening to them and the more they talk to you the more value they will attach to you for being there for them when they needed someone to talk to.

If you do this right you will be able to re-develop a friendship with your ex which they value and this might lead to your ex making the first moves in getting back together.

As you can see if you want to know “How to get back an ex?” you need to be sneaky. Sneaky when trying to let them think you are moving on and sneaky to get them to trust you by letting them feel good about themselves and then finally sneaky when trying to let them value your friendship and only then you can make your move to get them back.