If you want to know how to get your ex girlfriend back you need separate fact from fiction.

True or false?  1. Three quarters of break ups are instigated by woman. 2. After a break up woman tend to want to get back together straight away. 3. Woman are irrational creatures and don’t always act in their best interest.

Well, all three are true. The thing that stops woman from getting back together after they break up with someone is embarrassment that they caused a scene, and that they do not want to always admit they made a mistake.

So the onus squarely falls onto your shoulder to go and get them back and break the stalemate.

Well, to do this you need to pursue a two pronged approach. One being that you must show her you are desirable and number two that you are available.

Now in order to achieve this successfully you need to address the core reason for the break up. One reason may be that you got comfortable in the relationship. Instead of continuing doing things with her like you did while dating you rather choose to stay home and watch sports on television or go out with your friends.

You must go back to the beginning and do the things which she enjoyed doing with you. You need to bring the fun back into the relationship.

Respect her by giving her space and do not phone her or text her during this time. Use this time to plan your next moves in how you will spend time with her to remind her of the fun times you had together. Only then after a few weeks of no contact you can call her and invite her as “just friends” to the event you planned.

You will know what you’re ex girlfriend and you liked to do together so you should find it easy to plan something special where she would enjoy spending time with you. You must show her you changed and just blow her away during your time together.

Afterwards you can hint that you enjoyed your time together, and that you looked forward to more just like this. You can also use this time while you two are in good spirits to try and define some new terms for the relationship should you decide to get back together where both off you will be happy.

Fact is more than likely your ex girlfriend did not really want to break up with you but by giving her space and by using this time to fix that which went wrong you can get back together under some new terms where both of you are happy. This is one approach in how to get ex girlfriend back.