You lost your ex and are asking the universal question of “how to get my ex back?”

Yes your situation is not unique or uncommon. People all over the world would like to have their ex lovers back.

What is unique though is how long after the breakup you are now deciding that you want them back.

But whatever your unique situation you can get them back even after they moved on.

Here are 5 tips you can use to help you win them back.

How To Get My Ex Back Tips:

Tip 1 – Become their friend. Your aim here is to become a good friend to your ex. You need to show them that you can have a healthy friendship with them without any drama. The advantage you have here is that you understand them so use this advantage. When you and your ex become good friends and the stress of the breakup and relationship subsided then maybe your ex will see you again as someone other than just a friend again.

Tip 2 – When you talk to your ex be nice to them but also don’t shy away from having a little bit of attitude. Although the purpose here is for your ex to want you back again you still need play some hard to get. This tip is not for you to start playing games but rather to keep your ex interested and not just to have them feel they can have you back whenever they want.

Tip 3 – When you play some hard to get you still need to make sure your ex knows you are available. Also do not rule out the strategy of going out with some friends and do some flirting. Some jealousy can help you in your situation but remember that if you use this tip there is a fine line to walk here. If your ex thinks you are unavailable they will not be motivated to pursue you.

Tip 4 – Do not act desperate. You need to show your ex you are willing to move forward and that you can be mature about everything that has happened. Doing the opposite will only diminish your shares with your ex because they will see you in a not so good light when you start acting and doing things out of desperation.

Tip 5 – Bring back the memories. Every time you get a chance you need to remind your ex of all the good times you two had together and how great a couple you made together. But the important thing here is that you need to do this casually and with some tact and not just bring up the memories every time you see them. You do not want to be too obvious in what you are trying to do.

So use these tips to help you in getting your ex back. How you use these tips and when you need to decide according to your situation but also remember to be true to yourself.

Even though you are yearning to get your ex back do not blind yourself with these emotions. There is a chance that getting them back is not possible so when you reach this point you need to face reality head on.