How To Win Ex Girlfriend Back – Use The Big A!
12. Apr, 2009 
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How to win ex girlfriend back especially now that she disappeared out of your life and you are just starting to realize how much you loved her and how much you still love her. When this realization sets in this time can really be tough for you and if you are exploring the idea to go and win your ex girlfriend back it is important to make the right moves from the start.
Firstly do not beat yourself up if you made mistakes during the relationship. You are not the first and not the last person who will make a mistake when two people share their lives together. What you rather should do now is not to concentrate on the past but rather use your energy to ensure you have a future together with your ex girlfriend.
But saying this you are not immune to saying you are sorry for anything you did do wrong. You need to prepare yourself for the big apology. The important thing though is not to apologize just for the sake of apologizing. You need to seriously try and understand what you are apologizing for. So look into what you’re ex girlfriend’s objections were during the relationship.
So when you do make the apology it is important that you address two points which is:
1. That you understand your ex’s point of view and
2. you must convince her that you are 100 percent committed to change your behavior which led to the break up
If you need to go and talk to a professional to convince your ex girlfriend that you are serious about changing your behavior you must do just that. But just make sure you are sincere when you take this approach otherwise you will only waste your time and money. The biggest mistake that you can make here is to try and fool your ex girlfriend when you are trying to win her back.
If by any chance you cheated on your ex girlfriend which caused the breakup you need to figure out why you did it. This is important not only to avoid future situations like that but also so that you can explain your behavior and thought process to your ex girlfriend in why it happened.
As you can see if you want to know how to win your ex girlfriend back it is important to figure out the reasons for the break up and to figure out your behavior during the relationship and what you can do to change those things that went wrong.
And don’t forget that an apology can go a far way!
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man, this post really makes you think the break up was all your fault… i think it takes two to screw up a good thing.
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I agree with you 100% Cameron. But the post is about owning up to your part in the break up and apologizing for that. Like you said it takes two to tango but you are the only one who can account for your actions and your part in the break up.
One of the toughest things to do is apologize without appearing desperate. I think that is where most people make their mistake. If you start over-apologizing or apologizing for things you didn’t do in an effort to smooth things over, your ex may lose respect for you.
On the other hand, a sincere apology tells them that you accept responsibility for your part. And that can really open up the channels of communication.
You’re SO right about NOT apologizing just for the sake of apologizing… this can do more harm than good. Just like Jamie said, sometimes it can be tough to apologize without seeming desperate… but one of the best things you can do to prevent that is to NOT apologize for everything under the sun!
If you do so, you’re guaranteed to come off as desperate, bar none.
About #2… “you must convince her that you are 100 percent committed to change your behavior which led to the break up”…
Here’s my take… you CANNOT “convince” her… women do not respond to logic, and there’s really no point trying to change her mind about you… you have to SHOW her in your actions. NEVER tell her that you’ve changed… it’s not credible… you have to prove it first and she will take notice.
All in all, great post! I enjoyed it very much.