How To Get Your Ex To Return Your Calls, Messages Or Emails!

I want to share with you a simple but effective technique you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls, text messages or emails. Maybe you do not have this problem but I know there are some of you who have or certainly are going to have this problem sometime in the future. Breakups is messy affairs and this can lead to having to fight to get your ex’s attention after the breakup.

Just remember that this is just one technique you can use to get your ex too respond to your calls, messages or emails. However you still need to have an overall plan or strategy you can follow if you want to win them back.

Firstly – What NOT to Say!

Usually this falls into two categories which are the Plead and the Emergency. With the Plead you contact your ex and just go on pleading them excessively to please contact you and with the Emergency you fabricate a situation to let it seems that there is an emergency and that your ex must call you immediately.

As you can see for yourself using these two techniques is certainly the wrong way to do it as it will certainly backfire on you. And if you use the Emergency method on a consistent basis you will create for yourself a scenario where your ex will just think you are crying wolf again. And we all know that story.

The Power of Curiosity & Self Interest

Curiosity and self interest is certainly two of the most powerful forces of the human psyche. So you need to combine these two forces together to your advantage. If you do this you will certainly always get your ex to return your communications.

Example:

“Hi, Ben. It is me Jacky. I just wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me and I would like it if you can call me because I would like to thank you in person.”

As you can see in the above example both Curiosity and self interest is being used. Surely Ben won’t resist responding because he would like to know what he did that makes Jacky appreciative. And of course this message is much more positive than the plead or emergency message.

Warning!

Now before you make the call you still need to do some thinking work because you need to figure out what your ex did that you appreciate. It can be something small but it needs at least to be plausible.

As you can see this technique will work for you but it is important to set things up first by figuring out what you are going to say when your ex do contact you. You must do this before you use this technique.

And the most important thing to remember this is only one technique you can use in conjunction with an overall plan or strategy to win your ex back. Because what we want to do is to have long term success and not just hit and runs. And if you use this technique without careful planning you will have success when it comes to your ex returning your calls, messages or emails but it will inevitably be only short term success.

So think things through and get a strategy in place before using this technique.